2014…and the best is yet to come

At this time of year, many people are reflecting and evaluating life and some may find it cliche but for me this is important.

I debated whether I should do ‘yet another year in review style post‘, but the fact is, this is important to me.

2014 has not been without its hurdles and battles but hey, I must have won because on  the Eve of a New Year, I am standing tall.

I have accomplished things I never thought possible.

I have smiled, I have cried, but most importantly I have grown.

This year has taught me how to find inner peace and joy.

I have smiled through many testing situations.

I have learnt patience…though I still have a long way to go.

I have learnt to highlight the positive and ignore the negative.

I have been brave, bold, courageous and strong.

2014 saw the rekindling of old friendships and strengthening bonds.

I have had the courage to be myself and not worry too much about what anyone thinks.

I have opened up in ways I can only dream.

I have grown by leaps and bounds.

I have rediscovered who I truly am.

I have found new interests and hobbies.

I have gained a broader perspective on life .

My passion and desire for many things old and new have resurfaced .

I have enjoyed amazing experiences.

I have visited exciting places.

Major changes have allowed my life’s dreams to become a reality.

2014 will always hold  a special place in my heart.

I became a fiancee in 2014 at Harry Potter World. ( In my eyes, the perfect proposal)

We had a nice holiday with great friends.

We started redecorating our love nest and made a few big joint purchases.

This may not sound exciting but that’s things crossed off our to do list.

Most of all we celebrated  love in many ways, including a wonderful Christmas with family.

One of my  sisters had her first child so I gained another nephew…( number 4)

Though my family is scattered across the globe, I feel blessed for the little ones who will hopefully turn into loving, compassionate adults.

Like everything, there were ups and downs.

There were additions and subtractions as we go out of the old and into the new.

The good memories will be cherished.

The most important thing is to forgive ourself and each other for the times we’ve messed up .

This year I smile with pride as I review my goals and achievement.

My dream board isn’t far off and there are many things on my list I can tick off with a smile.

My heart is happy and I am feeling blessed.

It is with much gratitude I end this year .

I am very happy, joyful, free, at peace, but most of all grateful.

This year is just a glimpse into an amazing year ahead.

Thank you 2014, you have been an absolute eye opener.

You’ve turned me into a dream catcher and you have rekindled my passion for living a full life.

The best is yet to come……

Moving Forward

It’s officially 2014, and so I took a little time to reflect.
I can’t change or undo anything in the past, so my priority is to do everything possible to be a better person.

There are so many things that I would like to change about myself. After all I am my worst critique. However I am learning to be more constructive in my self criticism .

This year I really want to focus on my strengths, rather than mulling over weaknesses. 

Also, I want to be much more compassionate,  gentle, unbiased and patient. I want to get to know people without barriers. Not to be naive and gullible,  but to give people an honest chance.

I want to break all those walls and safety nets, by welcoming the fearless side of me.

It’s time to welcome that childlike  spirit that have  allowed me to dream in the past. They are dreams that  can become a reality.

This year is about creating, building and strengthening. Building myself, my relationships, and doing more of the things that make me happy. Things that drive my passion like blogging/writing, walking, cycling and a lot more homely things.

I want to grow spiritually ( I am not referring to being religious). I want to do more for others and also take better care of myself.

I have grown a lot in the past year,  and I am very grateful for every experience.  I learnt a lot about gratitude, being calm, starting my day with a positive attitude (mostly), trusting that all things will work out by releasing worry and fear.

I have learnt that the mind can be my greatest obstacle or my biggest asset…It all depends on my thinking, and how I choose to see things.

This is a time of growth,  discovery and love.
My heart and mind are open to receiving, so I am ready for the journey.

Thank you life.